Monday, December 15, 2014

traditions old and new

Hi blog, it's been a while eh? Sorry life got a little bit busy...



I can't even remember where I left off, New Found Glory I think? Anyway I'll start from there. That week was the usual hum drum until the Friday, another new tradition, this time a Dutch tradition, Sinterklass. It's essentially secret Santa but it's not because it's Sinterklass; but it was lovely, there was plenty of wine and pizza involved too which is a plus. The thing I loved about Sinterklass was that you have to write a poem to accompany the gift; there was laughter, tears and lots of love in these little poems! My gift- a perfect shade of lipstick and chocolate, well done Sinterklass!

Then the weekend included a tradition that I grew up with, Christingle. Christingle is an English Church tradition, it involves an orange and a candle and children. I love Christingle. I have missed it for many years now so it was super special to take part again. It was a stunning moment when the congregation all stood in a circle with their lit Christingles singing 'Light of the world', without getting to cringe I will remember that moment for a long time.

Then came last week, the busiest week I've had in Paris (yet). I volunteered to do the costumes for the church nativity, lots of animals and angels, so I was at church most daytime free time I had. I can't moan though, yes it was busy but I loved it; it was so nice to be using my degree skills away from stressful uni environment! And there was alway excellent company at the church. Evenings were taken up by catch ups and playing (really rubbish) first aider to Head Wound 2.0. Neither of these were chores either, my Friday night was spent watching Buffy and eating cheesecake and it was beautiful.

Then Saturday came around and I woke up feeling awful. The little girl I look after was sick then the mum was so it was my turn, just really rubbish timing! Not one to ever let a sniffle stop me off I trotted to nativity rehearsal, which went like a dream. I mean it, might have something to do with 3 adults stepping into missing roles by the end... Then I met Steph for an explore round the proper Montmartre which was so nice but wet, really really wet. We loved the area and explored as much as we could handle in the cold wet rain but I was done by the time we got on the metro. Highlight of the trip, me suddenly realising I had been there before then spending the next 15 minutes telling Steph I definitely went for a drink on that street after NFG, I never did find the bar. After warming up slightly and again deciding I wasn't that ill I made the loooonnnnngggg ass journey to Zoe's to help with the mountain of food she had for her housewarming. By help I mean eat. So that was fun, gin and tonics soothed the cold for a while but not enough to stop me being in the first group to leave, I'm so disappointed in myself. There was another good reason though, my 8am start for nativity yesterday.

So we have arrived at yesterday, the longest day ever, I left the house at about half 8, I got home at half past midnight. Yet now writing about it, it never felt long, it was the nicest day (minus feeling like death at a few points and finding quiet sofas to power nap on) Morning service was nativity time, thank goodness for Gemma to be dresser whilst I sat face painting animals. Of course this is France, everyone is late in France, those on time had beautiful faces, those whom arrived 5 mins before went on stage with a nose and whiskers. Anyway it was beautiful, the little ones were all angels and danced like divas and the older children rocked their characters! 2 weeks work over in 10 minutes, yet I don't feel like it was a waste at all; the reactions from the kids over their costumes and then the thanks I got from parents after made it all worth it, for sure. Lunch was a calm point of the day, well once we'd figured out the broken cooker. Good food, good friends and rest, we needed it.


Carol service preparation started mid afternoon, 1000 mince pies and 4 vats of mulled wine, obviously I helped with the mulled wine. Whilst it was a stressful afternoon for everyone at times it was fun and there was definitely Christmas spirit around (and cognac) I spent most of late afternoon bricking it because I said yes to doing a reading at the service. The service that has about 700 people attend in a church we borrow for it, beautiful but flipping enormous. So yes whilst doing a reading got me front row seats in between two lovely gentleman who tried their best to distract me, I didn't really enjoy the lead up to the service or the first few carols. However after my reading (which went well, I managed to stifle my giggle when the microphone got switched on halfway through) I fully embrace a beautiful, simple carol service. I miss home's carols by candlelight but here's alternative was pretty wonderful. After I served mulled wine whilst drinking it and then decided to just drink it instead. I got to the point where I couldn't work out whether I felt horrible, fine or tired. I decided it was hunger, thank goodness for Zoe and her willingness for late night food!



Monday's not normally much to talk about but today has been pretty cool for me and my French family. First off I had an easy shift, just E then I and A came back early. Literally I had her for an hour alone. When I came home she showed me all the video's of E's choir performance ce martin. Normally I disappear into my room for a little while before dinner but not today, I sat out with the children making Christmas things and writing Christmas cards, whilst I told me how little I'm working these next few days! Then over dinner I told the family about Sunday and shared some left over mince pies with them. 7 au pairs and I'm the FIRST to give them mince pies! They loved them so obviously now I have to make some with the children. It's evenings like today when I remember why I offered to stay until the 23rd because the are so damn lovely.

I don't have a topic of deep thought right now, I'm trying to work out which one of the endless trains of thought in my head I should write about next. Maybe I'll blog again in a few days about something.

Wednesday, December 3, 2014

you'll meet some strange birds along the way

Today is Wednesday, already, that's like almost another week gone. STOP GOING SO FAST TIME, I'm not ok with it.

This week I've kicked off the festive season with a bang, been 15 again and started to figure out pigs ears and sheep tails. The fun all started on Friday; as official costume designer for St Michael's children's nativity (knew that degree would come in handy) I decided I needed to venture to Primark for coloured t-shirts and leggings. Going to Primark in Paris is not like going in England; you need a good couple of hours, a list and a calming Natalie by your side. Actually turned out to be quite fun and we got everything we needed plus Christmas jumpers (no I am still not the sophisticated Parisian I could be if I tried). Friday evening then saw the festive season kick off in some kinda style thanks to Natalie and Jodie's Christmas party. It was fancy dress so I went as snow, just wore a lot of white and glitter, which worked, kinda, well until the early morning wander home sparkling in the sun. It was such a good night; I miss having space to throw parties, me and Bear used to make up reasons to throw gatherings in our little house on Mill Street, I seem to remember our Christmas party was pretty amazing last year. Anyway the festive season is here, all is right with the world.




Saturday was really rather lovely, D&I had friends from Normandy visiting so I joined them for lunch, lots of wine and cheese. Then I met Steph for a wander and catch up, after which I dragged her to meet everyone to watch the rugby in the pub. Missed that too, watching the Saturday afternoon sport in the pub with a hangover. Did have to confess that after 3 years there and a die hard Welsh girl for a best mate my alligences lay with the Welsh. Made the Aussies happy to have one more on their said. Then it was hope for a quick power nap before dinner in the crêperie and I dropped into Nico's birthday meal to say hi to him and Cath. It's amazing what you can fit into a day sometimes.

Sunday was spent holed up in the church office doing stuff for the nativity before doing my best sound technician impression. My Sunday fun came after church (that didn't sound so dodge in my head). Anyway, managed to find a bit of a soul sister in the lovely Sara and we discovered we shared a passion for old school grungy music, we regularly relate conversations back to Blink 182 songs and talk about the days we wore Etnies and tartan Converse. Any New Found Glory were in town, for dirt cheap too, it was kinda of a must. Off we trotted in our skinny jeans and black tops to the venue. First of all, the place, better then the Astoria in the heyday, really small and old school, not over crowded either. And then New Found Glory, what can I say, the guys are getting on a bit but they have most definitely still got it!! I was beyond impressed! Plus side of gigs at 23, drinking freely and not having a curfew. Definitely abused both, oops.





Faces was the thing this week for me, old faces, new faces, faces I'd known for a while but not really chatted too and faces I'll chat to this one time then never again. When you move to a new country or any new place you have to find your feet. It does take a while to find the group of friends you'll stick with throughout. Then in a big city like this is so easy to get chatting to people somewhere, have a few drinks then walk off without getting their number. The friends you first make somewhere are more then likely not going to be the friends you have at the end, I have one or two people I see regularly that I've known since my first week here, the rest have all come along the way. I'm lucky that I have church, an amazing community of young people that I've slotted into. And then you meet friends of friends who you really get on with or you talk to someone who you see a lot but never chatted to and you realise you should've gone for coffee much sooner. Anyway you find you're groove eventually, I feel like this weekend I realised I found mine.